Mutual consent, respect, unconditional love, and acceptance are the qualities couples wish for pertaining to a positive and happy relationship. When your boyfriend becomes your confidant and you two want to live together for eternity then congratulations you have an ideal boyfriend and relationship.
Look for these qualities in your boyfriend to make a decision on your future:
1. He is ready to take the fight for your self-respect when you feel emotionally down.
Emotional trauma in life takes the ability to have continuing faith and you even lose the will to live anymore.
The phase of depression and anxiety can make you distant and quiet and you start to give up everything in your life. Despite knowing your psychological state, your boyfriend will never criticize you. Instead, he will be the person who makes you realized that he is there for you in your worst and he will keep motivating you until you start believing in yourself again.
2. He makes you feel secure and you can say that he is your home.
No matter, for how long you two have to live apart from each other, you always have a much deeper emotional connection that makes you feel safe around him.
3. He wants you to love your original self because he loves your originality.
When it is easy to be original around the person you love the most then you are lucky to have a boyfriend like him in your life. He believes in your real self beyond societal stereotypes.
4. He will let you have the sweet comfortable silence.
Situations and relationships may create a lot of noise around you and sometimes, you get frustrated and want to dwell in silence. You are lucky if you have a boyfriend who is ready to tolerate you for the rest of your life as you are and the way you want to lead your life.
5. He is mature enough to understand the importance of relationship over fight or argument.
Disagreement is evident in any relationship. When two people come with different opinions and thoughts may sometimes argue over things but that doesn’t mean that they are not fit to live together. Your boyfriend knows when he is crossing his line and he needs to stop because he doesn’t want to pose any irreparable damage to your relationship.
6. He admits his love without conditions.
You don’t have to come across any unfair conditions or unmet standards with him. You can only imagine pure love and acceptance when the two of you are together.
7. He is planning his future with you.
You are involved in all the decisions related to his future which means that he is planning to share his life with you for a long time. He seeks your opinion and advice on the matters that are important to determine the status of your relationship.
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