Marriage is not always smooth, it requires a lot effort or else it will start to collapse. Indeed, even with solid establishments, connections are inclined to marriage mistakes, especially if it’s a newlywed couple. This couple is bound to make a lot of mistakes, but they should keep in mind that not all the mistakes are recoverable, and they should be aware of some mistakes that can easily destroy a newlywed couple.

1. Your partner keep on mentioning your past mistakes

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Nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. If your partner has done something wrong, then talk to them about it and let it go, instead of mentioning it again and again. Mentioning their mistakes will only make your partner feel bad, leaving a negativity in your relationship.

2. Thinking, marriage will be same as dating.

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When people get married, they often assume that married life will be easy as dating. But it’s not the case. Marriage is a lifetime commitment which brings a lot of responsibilities, whereas dating is open you can move out whenever you want. So, to have a healthy relationship you need to understand the difference.

3. Broadcasting your problems

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Every relationship has to face some problems. It doesn’t mean that you should start telling about them to everybody. Instead of discussing them with your friends or parents discuss them with your spouse. You’ll get a better a solution.

4. Making assumptions

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Don’t assume that you know your partner completely and jump to conclusions. Instead, sit and ask them what they actually meant. Learn to understand other’s opinion and don’t be so quick to decide.

5. Blaming your partner every time

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As discussed above, it is not good to be quick. We people instead of thinking where things went wrong, we start to blame each other for doing or not doing certain things. So, if you do this, stop it and try to sort everything without accusing each other.

6. Hateful actions

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Mocking your partner or calling them with bad names is never healthy for a relationship. Hateful actions or gestures will only create harsh feelings for each other.

7. Disengaging yourself

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Disregarding issues or just separating yourself from your partner in case of an issue, additionally mixes issues instead of resolving them. What the vast majority doesn’t understand is that by staying silent on broad issues will in the end cause the downfall of their relationship.

8. Too much criticism

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While you should never hide your feelings, particularly from your partner, you ought to likewise be excessively watchful of how you express your opinions to your partner. Because criticism can be both good or just hurtful.

9. Your tone is harsh

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Always stay calm and polite. Even you’re saying something that is important, and you want your partner to understand it, don’t yell or be sarcastic. Harshness in your tone will bring no good, only your partner will be drifting away from you.

 

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