Its natural to get lost in feelings and emotions when you are in a healthy and loving relationship. You are to do everything for your partner and for that relationship. You think and want this relationship to be forever.
But what if it turns out to be the worst relationship ever or if it was not meant to be forever? What if It turns out that the feelings are not mutual? You always want to be in a relationship where you feel secure and loved but if that’s not happening its not the right place to stay. If it feel like your partner is taking you as a temporary ride or time pass, where you can be easily replaced by some other person then you must not linger on in that relationship.
But the question is how to identify that your does not take you as their future. To save yourself from being used notice these few signs and if they are visible then move on.
1. Your Partner Does Not Like To Talk About Future.
Whenever you try to plan for future with your partner, they either totally avoid it or just gives you vague answers. This is entirely because they are not serious with you. They do not see you in their future and at any moment they will leave making you feel devastated.
2. Your Instincts Are Giving You Signals That Not To Trust This Person.
You are not satisfied completely; your gut feeling is continuously trying to tell you that there is something but you just ignore it considering it as overthinking. But no stop and think a little more and learn to trust your gut feeling.
3. Your Partner Does Not Make You A Part Of Their Life.
Your partner does want to share their life with you. They do not share their interests, hobbies or likes and dislikes. Neither they take you or introduce you to their friends and family. They are just okay you being there and nothing more than that.
4. There is No Sign of Yours on Any of Their Social Media
Here is the eye opener for you, they need to stay quiet about you. They’re despite everything showing the world that they are single and are available for dating. They don’t need others to realize that they’re in a serious relationship to you since they’re despite everything open to seeing others.
5. Your Partner Has Given You A Hint That They Looking For Something Serious
This is one of the greatest indications that your partner isn’t focused on you. It resembles a disclaimer that they can use on you the second they choose to leave you. They will disclose to you that they don’t need anything too serious or real because they fear responsibility.
6. There Are No Deep Conversations Between You Two
Just because you two talk it doesn’t mean everything is going perfect. Sometimes you need to have some deep and serious conversation where you talk about life, feelings and sentiments. It makes your bond stronger and deeper.
7. Your Partners is Only Available According To Their Convenience
That is not what a relationship ought to be about. At the point when you get into a relationship with somebody, there ought to be consistency and steadiness. Also, if your partner turns up missing on you, just because its inconvenient for them, at that point that is an indication that they’d readily go missing on you whenever u need them to be with you.