Marriage is a sublime topic in the life of a woman. Starting from her early 20s, after graduation, the one question which is most important than oxygen for her is, when is she getting married? Her cousins and friends are preparing for their big day, they are of her age, but she is not considering any proposal serious. In fact, opposing all norms, she wants to study more not just for a sound financial position but also to do something for herself. Her ambition will put her under a toll, those years when she will be struggling in her career, at the same time, her friends are raising two or three children, some will get divorced and remarry but she will remain unmarried. Nonetheless, this will be her decision and whatever are the consequences, she remains at peace that she hasn’t forced herself to do something that she would regret afterwards.
Intelligent women are wise and take time to consider a man Mr. Right, is an option that they want to own in their life. A woman when comes to an age of 30 or 30+, is not old rather wise and wiser than many other who are unhappy in their marriage because they weren’t mature when they got married and now unable to sustain their relationship. An intelligent woman knows herself from inside out, she lives through the challenges and hurdles, enough to lessen her conviction. Yet, she rises above all, learns from her mistakes, and is able to shape a life for herself in which she is independent and grown.
Therefore, she takes her time to deliberate on the subject of marriage and the man who is going to partner her. Several aspects about a man; his qualification, financial stability, social behavior, equality in a relationship, are important for her to take the final decision. She is not desperate to tie the knot with any man just because she is overage for marriage. All her time spent on professional and personal development makes her less needy and less clingy for a man in her life. Her preference is someone who gives respect to who she is and her perspective for the world. Hence, she is not afraid of another year passed without betrothed to a man.
Yes, her expectations are raised and she wants to consider the following factors before saying “I do” to Mr. Right: