It’s been a long time with your partner and now you both are thinking to tie a knot. But are sure that you both are totally ready. Just to be sure every couple should do some of the things together. This will help you to know each other better and will help you judge whether you’ll be able to handle situations together or not.
So, read on to see the things every couple must to do.
9.Have a major argument
Have a big fight with your partner. This sound extremely weird but this important. Nobody is asking to pick up a fight, let it come naturally and then see how you and your partner handle this situation. Fights can sometimes turn into a big mess so if you both can pass this phase then you are ready to get married.
8. Meet each other’s parents
Parents or families play an important part in a marriage. So before getting married meet each other’s parents. It will be better as you’ll get to know whether you can cope with your spouse family or not. Also see how your partner behaves with your parents. If you and your partner can cope with each other’s family, then go ahead.
7. Meet each other’s friends
When deciding to get married with someone, do meet their friends. It is very very important. By knowing their friends, you can judge your partner’s personality. It’s good to who they hang out with.
6. Talk about finances
Money or finance is important in everyone’s life. So discuss financial plans with your partner. discuss how you’ll save after marriage or how you’ll manage any financial crisis. This will give you a proper plan and assurance also there will no fights in future on this.
5. Don’t hide your flaws
Obviously after marriage your flaws will be there in front of your partner. So, there is no point in hiding them. Tell them to your so they can get prepared and you’ll get a chance to see whether they are ready to love with your flaws or not.
4. Air big skeleton
If there are any real issues in your family, right now is an ideal opportunity to tell your loved one. This could be any disease or any other major problem of your life. It will help you to see whether your partner have enough guts to deal with it or not.
3. Live separately for some time
Again, this may sound weird. But it’s something you should do because by doing this you’ll get to know yourself. You don’t need to be dependent on anybody. Stand on your feet and learn to manage things independently. Once you’ll do this you’ll be able to manage anything after marriage even without your partner.
2. Learn to say sorry
Don’t let your ego come in between your relationship. If you can fight, then you should also learn to say sorry. One should know how to admit mistake and makeup to their partner. And your partner should also think in same way and if your partner doesn’t think in that way then for them their ego is more important.
Every relationship is based on give and take. Both you should respect each other’s principles and opinions. You both should be aware of how much of you are willing to make a compromise. Because without compromise you can’t make it in the future.
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