Apparently, things in your relationship are not as bad as you imagine in your mind, so don’t question your man’s faithfulness to you. Surroundings and social circle in which you move have a considerable impact on your thinking and perhaps this is the reason you change perspectives as you see or hear from outside.
Stories of infidelity and disloyalty come to your notice daily but you can’t relate to any such unless you find a solid proof that your man is cheating on you. Most of the time, failure of relationships is happened just because partners don’t communicate with each other and assume things that are made up without any ground. A huge pile of confusions and unsaid thoughts widen the gap between you and your mate.
The other certain reason for a failed relation is involving a third person. You don’t clear confusions between each other rather believe on the advice of an outside person who doesn’t even know the facts of both sides. Always being dubious on your man’s areas of interest, you envelop a lot of negative energy around yourself hence you keep worrying about something that you don’t really need to be worried about.
Why do you think your man is cheating on you? If you have only one reason and that is the tell-tales of your social friends who convince you to inspect every move of him then you are probably on the wrong track. All that fuss is in your mind, he is sincere to you and the following reasons are convincing enough to believe that your man is not cheating on you and never will:
1. You can trust him completely because you can’t mistrust his morals.
Since the beginning, have you ever been in suspicion that he has done anything against his morals and principles. If it’s a NO then you don’t have to worry in the future. A morally upright man believes the act of cheating as categorically wrong and would never subject himself to such impurity. He is a sensible person and knows the consequences will be devastating for both of you, regardless of that just having the thought to engaging in extramarital affairs is purely wrong.
2. He is worried that his children will see a despicable human being in their dad and he can’t afford it.
Men, in today’s day and age, are better fathers than their predecessors. They wish their children will see an empathetic, sensitive, and emotional person in their dad than a despicable human being who would betray mommy. Furthermore, your man desire that his children will see an ideal dad in him therefore, he wouldn’t think to ruin this beautiful family picture. The reason your man is faithful to you is because he is mindful of his actions and words that may impact the lives of his children. He would certainly don’t want to leave an impression on their adolescent minds that their dad would betray and pose a harm to the family.
3. He wouldn’t see his life without you.
Men who are codependent on their spouse would not get into a trouble of engaging into an extramarital affair. He would be absolutely devastated and helpless if any of his action would risk losing you. So, he will never do anything to rock the boat or else he knows that you would have no trouble leaving him in a heartbeat.
4. He wants to take the ship out of tumultuous situation.
He would not allow a third person to bring more damage to your relationship because things aren’t nice. Currently, situation may not be an ideal one for the both of you but still he would never get involved into someone because he wants to save the ship of your relationship.
5. He would prove to you that he only loves you.
His commitment to you would resonate to your ears as a proof that he loves you alone. Only you can satisfy him as a lover and no one else on the face of this earth is worthy to take your place.
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