It’s hard to keep it together when every single day you are waking up to the fear of a broken relationship with your man. Staying guarded, in the present scenario, is imperative when commitment is like a high-end commodity which can be earned only when you pay the price. Only a few wants to taste and savor being loyal to their woman. You have to be ready for the pitfalls of heartbreak. He would not make it obvious and he never will until you guess it hence, the following signs will raise red flags if he actually is interested in another girl in his life.
On one side when this digital age gives you ease and opportunities to stay connected at all times, it also constitutes lack of commitment in relationships. Unfortunately, millennials are experiencing the rampage of unfaithfulness more than what their predecessors have endured. Their fast pace life is another factor for denying loyalty in life. They jump off to conclusions in a blink of an eye, the restless frenzy inside of them don’t make them stay with one person for long. They fall out of a relationship pronto than they have fallen for. In order to avoid traumatic days afterwards, seek out for signs and prepare yourself for bad or worst.
Having a protective attitude shows prudence but being overly paranoid about things may also end up unfavorable for you. Being calculated about your relationship is acceptable but you need to keep reality and the paranoia separate. Sometimes, what you see that your partner is cheating on you may not be the actual situation. The best way to deal with this is to confront him first and then decide whether you want to end things or would find a way to move forward in your relationship together.
Just ensure before you react that you have right information. Act fast if you are sure of these:
1. He carries unusual scent these days.
His unusual smell of scent on his clothes is the first sign of suspicion. He smells this way because he is spending long hours in another woman’s company and their scent will start to stick to him.
2. He tries to scrutinize you.
Men are best at their diversion tactic and when to pin the blame on their women. It’s their way to protect their guard when they sense that they are being under investigation.
3. Your instincts are validating his disloyalty.
Listen to your gut feeling. Sometimes logic defies all odds but instincts are never going to lie. It’ll guide you when your logic keeps you blinded.
4. He hides his phone and computer screen from you.
The biggest hint of all and it can also give you evidence is when he hides his gadgets from you. He doesn’t want you to be snooping around because he is afraid of popping up of a message by another woman when you are close to his mobile or laptop.
5. He is hiding his guilt by trying to overcompensate.
His changed behavior is also a way to tell that he is onto something because he has never been this nice. He feels guilty over his disloyalty and he is overcompensating by trying to relieve himself over this guilt.
6. He asks for physical space.
It’s not just physical but also on emotional level, he seems distant from you. He doesn’t express much of his feelings and has no desire to tell what he thinks.
7. He gets irritated when is asked of his whereabouts.
His dealings outside of house are not transparent anymore. You can guess it because he gets irritated when you ask him of his whereabouts. He knows that it will make you unhappy when you learn what he’s up to.
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