1.Acknowledge your shortcomings and deficiencies.
There is a need to change your approach to love because you seem too arrogant to accept that you need self-improvement. No matter how meticulously you live your life, everyone in the world has flawed personality, and that is a reality. You are unable to find love because you are too self-absorbed and not looking around when people are ready to start their life with you. If you need to find love then you’ll have to let go of your ego. Love and ego can’t stay together inside your heart. Love teaches a person to stay humble and look out for the needs of others who are close to you.
2. Hanging over to past failed relationships.
Baggage from failed relationships in the past will not allow you to think forward and this keeps you inside the emotional whirlwind. You would only take control of the situations in the present when you are ready to let go of past emotional baggage. New things need focus, time, and energy but if all of your time and energy will be invested in the previous relationships then you wouldn’t be able to find true love for yourself again.
3. Open yourself to new avenues of learning, there is so much to explore yet.
Break the routine that you are living every single day from the past many years because you are not allowing yourself to come out of your comfort zone. You are rather too comfortable inside your limitations and this deprive you from any chances of finding true love. Explore world and look for new avenues of learning, sometimes you find life-changing turns in the most unexpected place.
4. Don’t be afraid to get vulnerable with someone.
You are exposing your vulnerable sides to someone and this is a risk you have to take in love. To a certain extent, you need to allow someone into your life and be vulnerable with. Prepare yourself for this chance because you’re never going to be able to find love for yourself if you don’t expand your territory of love. In the end, you will feel so much better when the payoff is comforting.
5. Have a clear purpose in your mind for love and life.
No one is able to make you happy if you don’t know the purpose of life and meaning of love for yourself. Your mind and heart need to be clear on what you want out of love and life and what it is you’re looking for to find contentment and happiness in your life.
6. Love and respect yourself before you expect others to do.
Everyone has some aspects of their personality that are unique and no one else can replicate them easily. You need to take pride of the quality traits in your personality. Don’t disregard what you already have in you. There is always room for growth and development if you want to. Once you will start to learn giving respect and love to yourself then others will also be careful to behave with you accordingly.
7. Compromise teaches you to value relationships.
Coexistence is not easy to manage when two people are not ready to compromise on the set of skills, ideologies, and feelings they find unique in their life. There are chances of clashes when two people come from different backgrounds and believe in different perspectives. Conflicts are not always destructive if you learn the way to manage different things between two people. You need to learn the value of compromise because only this way you can regard your relationships and find the true value of living with each other in happiness.
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