A sense of self-protection would save you being cheated by your partner in a relationship. You want to fall in love however you don’t want to give anyone power to hurt you and play with your emotions. Personalities are different from one another and it isn’t easy to identify a cheater when people would have different reasons and motivations behind this emotional felony.
Yet, it is difficult to spot cheaters in relationships but not impossible to detect someone being a cheater with the help of observing these behavioral clues. You may find the following common among cheaters:
1. They keep stressing on making physical advances even when you are not comfortable.
One, you are very confident about your intimate life because your partner makes physical advances towards you and you are comfortable in that situation. Two, you stress upon keeping a physical distance as you aren’t comfortable yet, but your partner is insisting on making physical advances and that makes him appeared trippy.
In the former situation, you shouldn’t be so confident just yet because a person might also have a very active sexual lifestyle outside the actual relationship. In the latter situation, they are unreasonably forcing themselves upon you without your consent and that corners them having a shoddy character. You need to make sure that you don’t fall prey to their sloppy manners.
2. They keep sniffing on your warm gestures as you are doing everything on intent and not with sincerity.
This is a perfect example of someone who has not been truthful and trust worthy in a relationship. They act constantly suspicious of you because at the back side of their head they themselves can’t be trusted.
3. They keep their phone out of your reach.
Your partner is keeping the phone out of your reach which appears to bring them under suspicion. They are afraid that if they leave their phone unattended then there might be a chance that they would be caught red handed. Your partner’s careful ways of using the mobile may raise many questions when you two shouldn’t be hesitating about sharing things of each other. This may take you sometime to develop trust on your partner when they are protective of their things as if they are hiding secrets from you.
4. They keep their interest in looking at their phones and not in you.
There is a limit to the amount of work a person has to be doing and be constantly on their phone. This can be a big indicator of a person’s infidelity and which makes someone wonder if that phone is being used for third party affairs or actually for the office work.
5. They keep lying to you about too many things.
When someone makes a habit of lying at every point then its alarming to even realize that how many times have they been already lying to you and has betrayed your trust. If you catch up your partner in a lie then there is a chance that they are serial liars and they would be lying to you for so long.
6. They keep trying to overcompensate by being uncharacteristically affectionate towards you.
Suddenly, you are observing your partner being emotionally invested in you when not for once they have been before. This may mean that they keep on doing something that would potentially hurt you and they are trying to compensate with their sweetness and affection towards you to appease their own guilt.
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