Regret is sulking and unresolved at an age when you cannot get over it and move on, you have to live with it out of choice. It’s best for yourself to walk away at the time when you realize that your relationship is not going to work, no matter how much you put in it. If you’re noticing the following signs that your relationship is over then don’t ignore them, move on, you would probably be more content in your life without it.

1. There is no personal attachment anymore

It seems like you’re stuck in a rut and there is no longer real discussion between you and your partner. Hopes, dreams, and serious issues in life, are things you discuss with your partner and prepare your relationship in accordance. Do you do such talk in current days?

Relationship brings two people close enough that it becomes easier facing the struggles and challenges together. Knowing each other’s vulnerabilities set precedence for an open and nonjudgmental relationship. Have you two opened up about the struggles in your life?

2. It has turned into a high-conflict relationship

There is always a way out in a conflict unless your values are no longer aligned. Relationship becomes toxic when disagreement prevails and no one wants to understand opinion of the other person.

Will you grow old with a person who doesn’t understand your perspective? You want to get old with your partner but how you will spend the entire life ahead when there is a deep lack of understanding between two people.

A long-term relationship sustains hardships, conflicts, and emotional challenges when partners are on the same page and conflicts will not dwell longer.

3. Pile of unsettled complains

Your partner is no longer interested in things that make you irritated. They don’t want to put their ear on your annoyances and they ignore everything as you do no longer exist around. Basic wish and needs upset you when you ask to get those fixed. There is always complaining about laundry, dripping faucet, or blocked drainage, your partner is not trying to make you happy anymore.

4. Prolonged or unending arguments

Constant arguments drain all the energy out of your body and all you are left with is an aching heart filled with emotions that are no longer understood by your partner.

Mundane things take all the importance and not ending arguments on these superficial things pile up every single day. It seems the argument you’ve been having for years will no way resolve and its better your relationship is over.

5. You realize you’re not the same person

You have never been a perplexed person or always on the edge of your nerves. There was a happy, talkative, and vibrant personality once lived inside of you but now there is an anxious and depressed soul. Would you rather stay like this or you should get back to your original self? A relationship is not supposed to change you into an opposite person that you don’t want to be like, it should bring best out of you. If your relationship demands changes in you without your consent then it’s better to walk away.

6. Your future is dismantling than what you’ve expected

Your dreams for the future have shattered. You’ve envisioned yourself happy in this relationship with the love of your life but it’s disturbing to see that you two are standing on different paths with dissimilar priorities on hand. What you have decided at the beginning of a relationship and when you were standing at the altar and now, is the not the same. You can’t look forward to things doing together.